Re: Qs re. building by direct labour - please help!
Mr Ed, time thn really is not something you have, but in saying that I have a friend who was in a very similar situation as yourself, family wise, who undertook a self build, took him 18 months to complete.
Also the distance from your current home/work to the new build is important, if you have to travel an hour to get to the build then an hour home, then a self build will again be difficult.
IF the PM company will undertake the getting of quotes, supervision and planning of the trades, organising of material for the trades, organising of services etc then your 10k is well worth it.
For your self build as I said you will need a least 1 hour per day to organise the trades or check the work, this as I said could be 3 or 4 hours some days, but its nearer the 1 hour.
You need be on the end of the phone to receive calls, you really need to be able to be at your site within 30-40 minutes, in case, again rare, you are needed to over see a work, your advice is needed, you need to sign for a delivery.
You need to be able to organise trades, ring them and meet them to get quotes, see their work.
You need to be able to go to trade suppliers to organise materials.
You need to be able to willing to help out if needed. It does happen, rare again.
The question also you need to ask yourself, do you have the interest in the build, the willingness for the hassle and the couple of hours per day to spare, if you dont then defo get a PM or a builder.