random2011
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Hi Random2011..not much use to you,but sincerely feel it must be very difficult for you and your family.
It shows the reality of how life is for many,and the type of bleak future you may have to face,if something isnt done..
If I were you I would go...
Like I said Im not of much use to you,except to say that there are so many who are in the same position as you that hopefully something will be sorted..Best of luck.
PS: there arent many petrol stations around any longer as a lot of them were knocked down to build apartments during the "boom"!
Oh yeah this months mortgage coming out yesterday or the next few days at least..oh well my overdraft will cover that I suppose.
Just a matter of time before I go over the overdraft limit and into arrears...
That's the way annuity/repayment mortgages work - for the first few years you are paying mostly interest and a little capital until eventually you reach a tipping point when capital repayments outstrip interest repayments. See this calculator:I've calculated that I have paid 62 months of our 35 year mortgage @ an average of 1320 per month
That works out at at 81k approx.
Meaning only 10k has come off my mortgage.
Approx 70k interest.
Why do you not live in the family home? What is your situation with regard to which property is your PPR and on which you can claim TRS etc.? Remember that you (as a married couple) can only have one.I live in a 3 bed semi 40 minutes from work and even longer from the family home.
How would that work? At minimum wage, 400pm would only give about 50 hours per month - or 10-12 hours a week. Are live-in employees exempt from minimum wage legislation?ever thought about a live in nanny from abroad, would be about 400pm so you would have savings there. i know you would have to pay for food and heat for said nanny but it wouldnt add up to the creche fees.
just a thought.
I think the issue is that the OP isn't asking anything - the site is called ASKaboutmoney not RANTaboutmoney. For frequent posters, there's the letting off steam section where rants are allowed; or there's boards as an alternative. A good thing about AAM is that you don't have to search through pages of rants to find anything useful - it's all about questions/answers with some opinion sections. People asking specific questions generally get constructive answers - do you know what the OP is asking about?
ever thought about a live in nanny from abroad, would be about 400pm so you would have savings there. i know you would have to pay for food and heat for said nanny but it wouldnt add up to the creche fees.
just a thought.
Is there any possibility you could pay more in your monthly repayments. The creche fees will not be forever. Do you want to do the money makeover thread to see if you can learn to budget a bit better as those overdraft costs would be better spent on paying down mortgage. With two of you earning it seems strange you need to be going into overdraft.
Could you give us a vague location (county) please as I'm surprised at the 65% drop in value for a 3 bed semi.
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It just makes me sick at what we have to pay back in terms of interest.
Not looking for any sympathy or debt forgiveness but would love a little fairness.
Have you tried doing something about it?It just makes me sick at what we have to pay back in terms of interest.
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