a 2nd hand will not mean it is less densely populated or have less cars. we moved into a 25 year old house and suddenly noticed that all the teenagers had scooters and all 20somthings living at home had cars so parking was the same issue as if it was a new estate with a lot of renters cars.
Let the dust settle, shop for couply things like paintings, furniture etc and invite friends over for night. your views may melt away.
However i did feel the same way as you and a family member moved in.