I do think on the basis of what you said that there was misleading information given to you. But I think in this thread you have already given two overlapping reasons for the delay in the marriage.
It would have seemed very prudent to postpone when you were not earning at the time. But if you had already made bookings there would be cancellation clauses and fees.
You also may have been acutely aware of the impact of marriage and your wife’s pension entitlements as it sounds as if your life expectancy is shorter than average (very sorry to hear that)
So your case to the FSPO should be based on the facts and the evidence that you can produce.
Can you prove you cancelled a planned wedding.
Can you demonstrate the pension information given to you then informed your decision. (Did you email it to your girlfriend and say, see what they say here, it won’t impact your pension if we delay getting married).
Can you show that your potential shorter life span influenced your thinking about ensuring your spouse would not loose out on you pension if you were not around.
If you can prove a direct link to your actions from this brochure, and the factors you took into account to postpone the wedding, then I do think you have a case. Whether that is 100% or 20% you will have to make your best estimate. If you were influenced 50% by the brochure, and you anticipate your wife will live 20 years beyond you, then you can propose a figure based on your model.
A major factor in these decisions was a glossy "bespoke" brochure supplied to me that stated unambiguously that should I marry before I retire and then die, my wife would get half my pension.
basically because I knew I was going to be made redundant, I put my life on hold including my forthcoming marriage.
It would have seemed very prudent to postpone when you were not earning at the time. But if you had already made bookings there would be cancellation clauses and fees.
You also may have been acutely aware of the impact of marriage and your wife’s pension entitlements as it sounds as if your life expectancy is shorter than average (very sorry to hear that)
. I suppose I don't expect myself to live to retirement.
So your case to the FSPO should be based on the facts and the evidence that you can produce.
Can you prove you cancelled a planned wedding.
Can you demonstrate the pension information given to you then informed your decision. (Did you email it to your girlfriend and say, see what they say here, it won’t impact your pension if we delay getting married).
Can you show that your potential shorter life span influenced your thinking about ensuring your spouse would not loose out on you pension if you were not around.
If you can prove a direct link to your actions from this brochure, and the factors you took into account to postpone the wedding, then I do think you have a case. Whether that is 100% or 20% you will have to make your best estimate. If you were influenced 50% by the brochure, and you anticipate your wife will live 20 years beyond you, then you can propose a figure based on your model.