Steven Barrett
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What you mean is that you disagree with it. You are wedded to the life industry propaganda that everyone must be fully insured for everything that might possibly happen.
I think it's important to challenge this and not to insure against risks which are low and which can be easily handled if they do happen.
Their combined income is €12k a month
Their expenditure appears to be about €5k - don't forget that they have no mortgage on either property.
They are both working.
If one dies suddenly and the other quits work, they will have 100 months of expenditure - about 8 years.
And they clearly have wealthy family who would advance some of the gifts if they were needed.
It's absolutely clear to me that their wealth is their life insurance.
Brendan
If the €4m inheritance is from the OP's parents, then the spouse can forget about ever remarrying or doing anything that would jeopardize that relationship so it can't be relied on. The spouse would struggle to give the children a 3rd level education
She remarries a penniless husband who depends on her financially
Thanks for your comments thedaddyman,Start with the obvious stuff and make sure you have wills squared away, done a full tax review to ensure you have claimed for everything and that you are set up in the most tax efficient manner possible and have claimed historically for everything you can.
Worth you wife just confirming her private sector pension position so you are clear. Also have you ever worked overseas or in the UK (see the posts on the UK state pension on here)
Are there any big spends coming up, anything you need to do to your own house, cars that need changing etc.
Given the great position you are in, I'd be focussed now, whilst you and the kids are young, on long term investment options for College in 15 or so years times
What you mean is that you disagree with it. You are wedded to the life industry propaganda that everyone must be fully insured for everything that might possibly happen.
I think it's important to challenge this and not to insure against risks which are low and which can be easily handled if they do happen.
Their combined income is €12k a month
Their expenditure appears to be about €5k - don't forget that they have no mortgage on either property.
They are both working.
If one dies suddenly and the other quits work, they will have 100 months of expenditure - about 8 years.
And they clearly have wealthy family who would advance some of the gifts if they were needed.
It's absolutely clear to me that their wealth is their life insurance.
Brendan
I would always support insuring your home.
Wealth is its own life insurance
To steal your own phrase, I think you are suffering a little from silo thinking here Brendan when it comes to insurance. Wealth is not specifically attached to life insurance.A great example of the fallacy of silo thinking.
There is no connection between the two other than some psychological connection.
That's what life insurance is, an unlikely event but it is anytime between now and when they no longer have four (or more) financial dependents1) That a healthy 37 year old dies suddenly and soon.
Far from penniless, supporting a family 4+ kids needs a high income. Good luck finding a high earner on the lookout for a widower with 4/5 kids2) She remarries a penniless husband who depends on her financially
Ah yes... because no Irish family has ever fallen out over money, land or inheritance...3) That after ten years of living off their investments, his family refuses to help out their daughter in law and their grandchildren.
In the OP's case, they could easily afford the rebuild cost of their PPR with their wealth and high income so why should they bother with home insurance??
There is a level of wealth at which point you don't need any insurance but the OP is not at it.The OP is wealthy. He does not need life insurance.
OK, so this is the risk that you are insuring against.
1) That a healthy 37 year old dies suddenly and soon.
2) That after ten years of living off their investments, his family refuses to help out their daughter in law and their grandchildren.
Sure it could happen. But it is vanishingly unlikely.
He absolutely does not need insurance against it.
Brendan
Steven
You recommend life insurance. Fair enough.
1) What level of cover?
2) What term?
Brendan
I'll just tell the spouses of my 2 work colleagues in their early 40s who died in the last 3 months that their situations are vanishingly unlikely.OK, so this is the risk that you are insuring against.
1) That a healthy 37 year old dies suddenly and soon.
2) That after ten years of living off their investments, his family refuses to help out their daughter in law and their grandchildren.
Sure it could happen. But it is vanishingly unlikely.
He absolutely does not need insurance against it.
Brendan
Firstly, don't assume anything and what if your wife died or, God forbid, both of you were killed in an accident?, sorry to be a killjoy but it does happen and having the issues sorted, especially guardianship of the kids as well will make life easier for those left behind.Thanks for your comments thedaddyman,
no will made but I presume all my assets will automatically go to wife if I died?
I've worked overseas but unfortunately not long enough for a pension anywhere, always <2 years.
There are not any real big spends coming up at the moment although I'm sure my wife could find a way to use 100k in the house somewhere if she put her mind to it!
This is frankly a flagrantly irresponsible position to take and not just a “difference of opinion”We will just have to agree to disagree.
I think that the OP is wealthy enough and has enough "insurance" in terms of expected gifts and inheritances.
They do not need to contribute to the profits of the life insurance and broking industry.
@MrBrurns
If you are concerned that
- if you die suddenly
- and soon
- and that your family will wash their hands of your wife and their grandchildren,
- And that her family have no money or will wash their hands of their daughter and grandchildren
- and that your €400k in assets
- and that whatever cover you have from your public sector job
- and your wife's widow's pension
won't cover their needs, then you should take out life insurance.
Brendan
This is frankly a flagrantly irresponsible position to take and not just a “difference of opinion”
Sensible enough - in context. When Winston was dealing with the colonies and their natives, he himself was usually the catastrophe that needed to be insured against.“If I had my way, I would write the word ‘insure’ over every door of every cottage and upon the blotting pad of every public man, because I am convinced that, for sacrifice that are conceivably small, families can be secured against catastrophes which otherwise would smash them forever.”
— Winston Churchill
he himself was usually the catastrophe that needed to be insured against.
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