Perhaps an objective comment?
It would be worse than useless if, any time a poster posted a specific query, without any background, contextual and grounding information, any helpful, unpaid, expert, voluntary, giving their own time and expertise - tick as appropriate - replying poster did not, at the very least, ask some very specific circumstantial questions to ascertain the overall position.
So - if Honey Bee had, for example, said: Oh by the way, to put this in some sort of context, here are some salient facts..........Oh and I do completely get the risk of losing the money........
That would have changed the responses.
And, perhaps, if the reply from cashier had included words like: there may, of course, be all kinds of extenuating circumstances........can only go on problems that other posters have encountered etc.,etc.
It would have sounded less harsh. But the points made were valid and sensible.
Now, moving along............
Answering the question asked - a good advisor would not do so without getting an overall perspective. People on this site are giving of their time and experience freely and willingly so, to suggest that only the question asked should be answered, is a little bit naive.
"Moral direction?" "We know who the worst offenders are? "
Ah now!
mf