I would appreciate some advice. I was self employed and got into financial trouble. I came to agreement with the bank in the short term and was making a monthly repayment but when the time was up they said they wanted to to pay in full. We agreed a lump sum (40,000) to clear the debt and they gave me three months to get it. It has caused real hardship but I was more than half way to having the money. We had a problem in our family and the money had to be spent on that, I would rather not go into details but there was no choice.
Now the time is up and I cannot face having to back to the bank. I want to pay this debt. A close family member is getting his first mortage and says he would help me by borrowing some of the money from the credit union. Can he do this?
I have always talked straight to the bank myself maybe it would be better to pay an financial advisor to take it on from here?
Any advice you can offer I would appreciate it, I cannot move on until this is paid.