Try ringing up revenue and asking them how much tax you've paid. Go to the revenue.ie website and find out which center you should ring (it depends on what part of the country you live in). If you give them your PPS Number, they should be able to tell you. If they refuse to tell you over the phone for security reasons (which is quite possible), ask them to send out a "tax credit certificate".
The bottom of the cert shows the name of the employer who should know about your credits. If your current employer's name isn't there, then he may not have registered you officially at all. Are you paid cash, cheque or bank lodgement?
If your employer's name is there, but you still think he's withholding some of the tax, try to find out in writing from revenue how much tax you have paid.
If your employer actually has paid the tax, and paid too much, then you will be able to claim it back at the end of the year.
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You can calculate your PAYE tax due at [broken link removed]. Put in your annual salary and select "monthly take home pay" from the drop down menu at the bottom. If you only started working half way through the year (and had no other job in Ireland), then put in the amount you expect to earn by the end of the year as your "annual salary"