My mothers house was left to myself & 2 other siblings - joint ownership. It is not lived in but visited quite regularly, my question is - what can be done about paying for the upkeep of the house? Work needs to be done fairly urgently, but 1 person won't contribute. There is also another problem about duties that were specified (although really quite vaguely in the will - personally I don't think the will was great to be honest & she didn't get great advice about the wording) in the will regarding another family member - she's in care & unable to look after herself but it was understood that she would continue to be included in family gatherings etc. This person does this on very rare occassions. Can any pressure be brought to bear, or is it a no win situation? Is there any conciliation service we might use as trying to discuss it with this person just leads to argument & no resolution?