Hi Ang
You first made this point back in your first post on the thread.
http://www.askaboutmoney.com/showpost.php?p=1388609&postcount=28
I have made it clear all along that she should ask to go early, but not insist on it.
And, no, you didn't make it clear all along that she should ask anything: your first post on the issue made no mention of negotiation, and included a gratuitous insult, calling the questioner "nasty".
Where the terms are such that they are outside the norm for the industry, then and only then would I consider a unilateral break.
We have to agree to disagree.
What is the point of having a contract? Why not just say "the norms for the industry apply"
The first post referred to the employer as "nasty" when he seemed to be just insisting that the contract be adhered to.
Hi ang
I thought that my first post, which you have helpfully quoted in full, was quite clear
" If they came to me and gave me formal notice of three months and then asked nicely if they could go earlier, I would talk to them about it. "
As an employer, we always had one months notice in contracts as far as I can remember.
I always asked employees who were thinking of leaving to let me know and many of them did, long before they got a job offer. We often helped to find the person a new job, using our contacts. We allowed people to leave before their official notice period, because their new employer needed them urgently. And we also allowed new employees to go back for a day or two to their old employers to help with the handover.
The first post referred to the employer as "nasty" when he seemed to be just insisting that the contract be adhered to.
Kildavin suggested ignoring the contract.
We have to agree to disagree.
What is the point of having a contract? Why not just say "the norms for the industry apply"
However given the situation the OP's fiancée is now in, I think this would be the best way out. It doesn't break any contract. The current employer might argue they are not obliged to allow the 5 weeks holidays be used but given it sounds like the employer is being very unreasonable here I personally would have no concerns about that - it sounds like there is no relationship to maintain there anymore anyway.
The bottom line for me is that it boils down to how and why the employer is insisting on the 3 month notice period being served - if they will already have a replacement in and motoring within 5 weeks, but are insisting on the contract being honoured just to be awkward, then I'd have no qualms about walking.
If the employee tried to re-negotiate the clause in her contract and failed, she is free to break that contract and accept the consequences. It doesn't make her actions wrong or immoral.
In other words I'd be guided by my own common sense and ethics; rather than blindly following a document I signed in good faith in the expectation of both myself and the other party being capable of exercising our own respective common sense and some level of mutual respect.
I don't think that they could argue that the 5 weeks can't be used? They could argue that she takes 5 weeks' holidays now and work the last 7 weeks of her notice. But that would be unreasonable.
That is not the bottom line for me. I respect contracts which I enter into. That is the bottom line for me.
Of course, it makes it wrong and immoral.
The consequences for the employer are disruption. There are virtually no consequences for the employee.
I am fully open to consensual renegotiation of contracts. But what is being suggested here by some posters seems to be something different: "Please agree to reduce the notice to 4 weeks and if you don't I will break the contract anyway."
So you will adhere to a contract blindly, without even attempting to renegotiate a term that you subsequently realise is unpleasant for you?
If you have a contract, and you can adhere to it, you have a moral and legal obligation to do so.
If you wish to renegotiate that contract, you should talk to the other side about renegotiating it. If you can reach agreement on the renegotiation, that's fine. If you can't, you can terminate the contract, but within the termination terms.
If you break the terms of a contract because you cannot adhere to them, there should be no shame. For example, if you lose your job and you can't pay your mortgage repayments.
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Once again Brendan, no-one is saying that people should break a contract because it is "unpleasant".
The Courts can decide on the validity of the clause if there is a dispute
Do you really think that minimum wage employees should have 3 month notice clauses inserted in their contract?
You may very well say that people shouldn't sign a contract but try telling that to someone who knows that there are 1000 other people outside the door that will sign it.
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