Re: That's where it goes
Beauty" stuff - e.g creams, shower gels, make up - about €40 a month
There are probably ways to cut down on this amount but it depends on what products you use, if you "need" to wear full make-up every day for work etc. You could always try the discussion boards on
www.ivenus.com for some tips from others about how to cut this amount down, if you wanted to.
Books - about €50 a month on average
Do you ever use 2nd hand bookshops? Are you a member of a library? I could easily spend twice this amount on books in a month but in reality (because I'm broke, and I don't even have a house, you're already doing well in that respect!) I spend about this much every year. Also try The Book People for some good deals.
SSIA - €20 a month (€80 a month from June 2005)
Max this amount and, if as you say you are used to living on a cash only amount, you'll probably manage to still do that. If you don't have it, you can't spend it. Or consider the suggestion about to open a credit union account and put money into it as soon as you get paid.
You could try buying the savings stamps for this, it may seem less painful to fork out 2 or 4 euro every week than the whole lot all at once.
Doctors bills - €25 a month on average
Are you a member of HSA? I've recently joined HSA and figure I'll be saving a few hundred on medical expenses this year. There are some restrictions on pre-existing conditions but it would probably be worth a phone call to find out if you could use it.
I think you should be able to claim a fair amount of tax back if you go to the doctor this often.
Are you a member of VHI/Bupa/Vivas - I've never managed to claim for anything from VHI but if you go to the doctor this regularly would it be worth your while?
Otherwise, check out the links already posted to other threads - seeing how other people manage their money might give you some ideas. Try to keep a detailed money diary every day for a week. Why not try to get a couple of friends to join you in doing this - you might feel less self-conscious of it if everyone else at the table in the cafe pulls out their own piece of paper to make a note of what they have just spent. If you don't want to do this at least start asking for a receipt for absolutely everything you buy and at the end of the day write the amounts into a notebook.