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maxim78
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Hi,
My marriage broke down as a consequence we are to settle issues over our 3 year child, maintenance, mortgage etc.
I am from a non EU country. I am seeking to bring my child with me on holidays when I go back home. My ex wife says no more than 10 days; however as I am from Russia, it is not really affordable and practical to go for such a short period with the three year old.
Our mortgage takes up about half our incomes, and I find it quite hard to pay half of the mortgage as well as the rent in the new apartment. This leaves me with very little (enough for food and bills).
She is also looking for spouse maintenance, which I think is ridiculous considering that her income is 30 percent higher than mine; however, she says she will not let me see my own child unless this is paid.
My main concern is about kid's cultural development since my ex is trying to cut that aspect and if it goes on the way it is I will have to talk to my child in English rather than Russian as this was the case up to now.
This worries me a lot.
Any suggestions are welcome, please
My marriage broke down as a consequence we are to settle issues over our 3 year child, maintenance, mortgage etc.
I am from a non EU country. I am seeking to bring my child with me on holidays when I go back home. My ex wife says no more than 10 days; however as I am from Russia, it is not really affordable and practical to go for such a short period with the three year old.
Our mortgage takes up about half our incomes, and I find it quite hard to pay half of the mortgage as well as the rent in the new apartment. This leaves me with very little (enough for food and bills).
She is also looking for spouse maintenance, which I think is ridiculous considering that her income is 30 percent higher than mine; however, she says she will not let me see my own child unless this is paid.
My main concern is about kid's cultural development since my ex is trying to cut that aspect and if it goes on the way it is I will have to talk to my child in English rather than Russian as this was the case up to now.
This worries me a lot.
Any suggestions are welcome, please