Tom
You must have the patience of a saint, or my tolerance levels needs checking. My deatached next door neighbours recently installed a wooden floor, father in law was doing it over the space of about 4 weeks. One night they lost run of themselves and where using a big deWalt saw around 11pm at night, they had the windows open in the house. I was promptly out of bed asking them to keep it down or close the windows. Having a 1 year old wake up to that would have caused a less polite response from my end. If a mgmt company are involved get then on the case, if not look up the 'noise legislation' and start using it!
I used to play drums with a rubber matt of each drum, crap sound but allowed technique practise etc. Only played when I knew neighbours were out for the day!