I would also pick Carlow over Tullow. I live in the Brownshill / Bennekerry area, The Paddocks is a nice estate, I would imagine full of families like yourselves with parents commuting to Dublin. Crime is no worse than in any small town, I would have no problem walking home from town with my other half after a saturday night out... i always think you'll find trouble if you go looking for it! Schools are good in the area also, closest one in town is Askea, separate boys and girls schools but are situated side by side. also a county school in Bennekerry beside the church, has also got a pretty good reputation. Would have no problems with the building company either, they own / have built most of Carlow town over the past 10 years. PM me if you want any more info. Bluebell.