Dublin Divorce
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Don’t know where to go for advice or what my first move is. I have a property in Dublin, about 160k in negative equity, jointly owned by myself and my now ex husband.
He wants to just hand the keys back (if only it were that simple!!) but i don’t want to destroy my credit rating and can’t do a PIP due to my job.
I have moved out and am renting the 3 bedrooms in the house for 1500 a month and I have moved in rent free with my partner and our 10 month old baby. I’m still having to pay 1400 a month into my old joint account for the mortgage/life insurance/house insurance/property tax etc for a house I am not living in and this is totally unsustainable for me.
I’d love to get rid of the house and deal with the negative equity, but even if they let me agree to only half it it would still be 20 odd years before I could clear that balance and I am already 42. I think my ex partner would agree to an arrangement for the other half although whether he would then default on that I don’t know! In an ideal world my new partner and I would like to self build so could potentially move some of the negative equity to a new house.
Any advice on who to speak to or what to do next?
Income details
Net monthly:
€3k salary from HSE employment plus €140 child benefit
€1500 coming in monthly from renting rooms.
Personal circumstances so we can calculate your reasonable living expenses:
Currently moved out of property and living with new partner and our baby to allow me to rent my house for income towards the mortgage.
Each pay half of crèche costs so personal cost of €260 a month.
Car required for work with €500 a month fuel costs to and from work 300km each day.
Home loan
Lender: KBC
Amount outstanding: €650k. €177 of which is warehoused. Agreement in place prior to ex husband leaving which I haven’t informed them about as initially he was still paying his half but then reduced to €500 a month after I rented some rooms.
Value of home: 500k
Interest rate: 4.25%
Monthly repayment: 2900
Amount in arrears:0
Credit Union / savings nil
Other loans and creditors:
Personal loan 4K €450 monthly payment. 8 months left.
Do you expect any lump sums.
No
How important is retaining the family home to you?
I don't care about keeping the family home. Property prices not increasing in the area and i’m afraid the market will crash and I will be even worse off.
He wants to just hand the keys back (if only it were that simple!!) but i don’t want to destroy my credit rating and can’t do a PIP due to my job.
I have moved out and am renting the 3 bedrooms in the house for 1500 a month and I have moved in rent free with my partner and our 10 month old baby. I’m still having to pay 1400 a month into my old joint account for the mortgage/life insurance/house insurance/property tax etc for a house I am not living in and this is totally unsustainable for me.
I’d love to get rid of the house and deal with the negative equity, but even if they let me agree to only half it it would still be 20 odd years before I could clear that balance and I am already 42. I think my ex partner would agree to an arrangement for the other half although whether he would then default on that I don’t know! In an ideal world my new partner and I would like to self build so could potentially move some of the negative equity to a new house.
Any advice on who to speak to or what to do next?
Income details
Net monthly:
€3k salary from HSE employment plus €140 child benefit
€1500 coming in monthly from renting rooms.
Personal circumstances so we can calculate your reasonable living expenses:
Currently moved out of property and living with new partner and our baby to allow me to rent my house for income towards the mortgage.
Each pay half of crèche costs so personal cost of €260 a month.
Car required for work with €500 a month fuel costs to and from work 300km each day.
Home loan
Lender: KBC
Amount outstanding: €650k. €177 of which is warehoused. Agreement in place prior to ex husband leaving which I haven’t informed them about as initially he was still paying his half but then reduced to €500 a month after I rented some rooms.
Value of home: 500k
Interest rate: 4.25%
Monthly repayment: 2900
Amount in arrears:0
Credit Union / savings nil
Other loans and creditors:
Personal loan 4K €450 monthly payment. 8 months left.
Do you expect any lump sums.
No
How important is retaining the family home to you?
I don't care about keeping the family home. Property prices not increasing in the area and i’m afraid the market will crash and I will be even worse off.