Moral Ethos
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Am just curious as to how i should proceed.
Did you leave your mask and shotgun in the UK or are you gonna rob some banks here too?
BlackIreland, as far as I can make out, no-one was judging you in the way you think but sometimes even a person of integrity has to give some background - there are a lot of people posting on this website who are totally out to screw the system in any way they can, expect advice as to how to do it more, and for people to join in with them in laughing at the poor sods that actually do the right thing when they can.
Nothing against this website (I love you, askaboutmoney!) but these type of posters make the rest of us wary, especially in present economic times with so many of us in difficulties.
With regard to your loan I do think the Bailiffs will catch up with you eventually, and that you are still legally liable for the amount owing. If you do decide to sort it out in the future try www.mabs.ie, if you send them an email query they should be able to give you some manageable options.
Childcare in Dundrum, Dublin (for those of you who do not know) is approx €1200 pcm for a reputable organisation that i would feel happy leaving my 6 month old daughter with. It is therefore not a financially viable option for me to return to work.
I would also like to add that neither myself nor my husband have ever claimed benefits of any nature, and are not out to 'play the system'.
Please think very carefully before judging the users of this site, who are simply asking for advice in these difficult times!
It looks like the OP is paying 1200 a month childcare, while being at home full time herself, and at the same time is not paying off her UK debts. It does not make sense.
My advice is stop childcare and pay off debts first.
OP asked for advice. Then got annoyed because people did not say what she wanted to hear.)
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What did you really want to hear BlackIreland?
You have got (mostly) very good advice on this thread from many sensible posters.
What is your attitude now that you have had many responses to the advice YOU asked for?
You are an educated person....use your logic!
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