Depends on precise number of years since given all clear. You mentioned 2010 so that doesn't give me the precise figure in years and months so I have worked out a few possibilities for you below:
With the precise type of cancer you mention, if you apply for a mortgage protection policy between 2-3 years since you have been given the all clear then you are looking at a loading of approx 10 per mille but only for say the first 5 years of the policy. Aftewr 5 years there is no loading. It is expensive though. Translated this means approx extra €10 for every €1,000 of cover you require. For example if you needed mortgage protection cover of €100,000 the loading would be 100*10/12 = extra €83.34 a month for first five years then no loading after that.
If 3-4 years since recovery then typical loading would be in the region of €10 per mille for 4 years.
If your recovery is 4-5 years then a loading of approx €8 per mille over 3 years.
If a persoin with the precise cancer stated took out a policy 6 years after recovery then they would get it at the same price as someone who never had cancer. This is great news.
That's your answer from a life policy point of view but you had other questions which due to time constraints at work I'm sorry I may not be able to get back to you today but perhaps some of our other contributors could help you. The questions you asked are:
"1. my qusetion is what do we do next?
2. will the bank consider us for a life cover quote meeting them next week?
3. Will they give us a waiver to have it just in my wifes name?"
Wishing you the best, Sumatra