The big problem stopping us buying our own house is our debts
We could afford the repayments on the house we are looking at without any problem if it wasn't for the repayments
Obviously to consolidate the loans and a house in one monthly payment would be an ideal soluton for us but it does seem to good to be true.
HI Zoltan
I just wanted to pick up on a theme in your posts.
That "we can easily afford if it wasn't for the debts"
The thing is the debts are yours, part of your spending pattern, a reflection on the way you live, proof that you spend more than you earn.
I say this as a recovering spender...who would still be in denial if I wasn't married to a saver, who points out my faulty logic at every oppourtunity!
I'm now almost fully brainwashed!
Thing about being a saver...is that you tend to have the money to pay for the emergencies,cars etc....that drive spenders to seek loans....loans cripple you because you have no flexibility...you have to pay every month...whereas saving you can stop paying for a while and start again as life allows.
I have work a work colleague who lived in council accommodation and paid for her extension out of her credit union account...she was AMAZING.
My sis, her OH and kids live in social housing and are debt free even though their business is tanking.
You can make all the excuses you want for these debts but the fact is...even if you paid for a heart transplant with the money...it is your spending...and the repayments burdening you now are a result of your spending habits...which are probably ongoing.
Dave Ramsey is a good suggestion and one that many of my US friends use...its kind of like weightwatchers for spenders...get the book out of the library, don't buy it
. In order to buy a house you need to change your attitude to money. You need to recognise these debts are yours...not enforced by the bank.
You sound like a competent intelligent person and you will succeed...but 25K is alot of debt. It will require dramatic changes.
Edited to add: adding these debts to your mortgage might be an option.
But the reality is, even though the interest rate is lower, you will be repaying for longer and therefore the debts will cost more.
So to do this without changing the other things would be crazy.