I'm more than new on the Forum so any help gratefully received. Mortgage for flat in 1999, top-up in 2004 (not sure if this was added to the mortgage or a separate loan as I don't have FOI docs yet) Lost job in midwifery in 2008, then illness -> Disability Allowance. Redeemed half of mortgage from a small inheritance in 2004. Bank brought me to Court in 2011 because while I was paying the lowish monthly premia, I could not clear the arrears. Registrar recommended I continue paying the same monthly premia and 'wait and see' which I couldn't really understand. Didn't have anyone with me in Court as I was very ashamed. Current arrears are 60k according to bank statements. A friend of the family has offered to lend me 50k at low repayments, but bank has asked for his details ?. Is this standard procedure ? He is a businessman and alarmed of what will follow. Bank have not said if this repayment would be acceptable to them as my file is still in 'legal'. Or how they would treat the remaining 10k plus accruing interest no doubt. Anyone had any experience with the banks response to these arrangements ?. I'm surprised by their lack of interest.