I have no savings & live hand to mouth each week
i will ring for advice once i buy credit for my phone..?
we have looked into moving to canada as in my work i could get a job no problem but we just dont have the money for visa/flights so we stuck here now with no prospects & Debt & no hope of getting out of it.
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Yes it is pretty grim Bennie, but you've thrown a chunk of light there. If the only thing stopping you going to Canada is money than the solution you're forced into is saving that money by not paying the mortgage or personal loan until you have enough to get to Canada. You might feel bad about doing that, but you should concentrate on what's best for you and your family. The banks and the Irish government don't seem to be coming with any viable solutions for people like you, so it's each man to himself.
I live abroad, so I know it's not an easy decision to make but with no prospects in Ireland, a mountain of impossible debt, no solutions and a possibility of a new life in Canada, all debt wiped off, well you need to think about it.
In relation to the MBNA debt, it's better that you are in negative equity, they surely won't waste money on putting a judgement mortgage on your home. Don't be afraid of them, that's what they and the debt collectors work on.
In relation to utilities and priorities. It is far better that you pay for food, utilities, and then mortgage, in that order not the other way around. You'll always be housed, even if you lose the place you are currently living in.
And well done on taking steps by posting on here about the stress, have you a family member you can talk to. You know there is also the St. Vincent de Paul as well, they do wonderful work. Just a listening ear can be wonderful. Remember there are plenty more like you, in the houses near you, but it's hard to spot it as everybody is so tied up in their own problems and hiding them that people don't realise they are so many in the same situation as themselves. Seek out whatever will eash your mind on the stress that MBNA is putting you under.
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