Thanks, Court order actually said 16 but father decided to keep paying till child officially finished school.
Its been a long road. No relationship whatsoever with mother as too stressful. However good phone relationship between father and child since about 14 yrs of age, which works both ways, as issue of distance. Father never insisted on visitation rights from the start, even though 2 hours on a sunday was written in court order. Clothes/presents etc would be throw out onto the front lawn broke or cut. Child has had a tough life but father feels he's paid enough to childs mother and would like to work with child.
Issue has arisen as mother now threatening to throw child out once maintenance stops (court clerk must have said something). She will do this as did with older child who couldn't pay her rent after children's allowance stopped. Mother's situation has gradually worsened over the years, two new children since, one only a baby (whose fathers dont pay maintenance either), she'd had to move from the original social house she had to a much rougher estate due to her relationship choices, she doesnt drive either.
The mother has always maintained she was worse off because of the maintenance she received weekly as social welfare would never give her anything as told try father.