"€200 per week is definitely on the high end of the scale. "
High end of whose scale? How do you know what % of net income this is?
If I got my child reared to adulthood, to include food, clothing, activities, birthday parties, housing, 24 hour childcare and holidays for €200 a week, I'd consider it a bargain.
no he just went with the crying of the woman".. looking to punish some chap.."
I understood you to say in your OP that the child maintenance was court ordered?
So are you suggesting that the judge at this hearing was pursuing some vendetta?
I find this a shocking post. From what I've gleaned the wife was good with her money and is living mortgage free. Good on her. The dad is paying a large mortgage. Presumably this houses his new partner and baby? Is the new partner not helping with the mortgage?The housing is extra (the maintenance order was not for housing)- he pays for his place with a large enough mortgage and she bought hers for cash.....
There is NO childcare - zero - nada - zilch. She is getting a free child. I have seen the figures.
Thirsty - I hear you - but the fact is the maintenance order given is not based on outgoings - if it were - she'd pay half. It's based on the woman cries - the woman gets. As for loving family - she has the child in fear of what he can and can't do - he is made do a plethora of activities - 4 of which he has no interest in - all she wants to do is spend someone elses money to inflict pain (That's the bare fact of the matter). The father's paying 200 - she's paying 40 if that....why should he pay the bulk when his income and hers are the same and his outgoings are more??? If he needs to change is car he hasn't a penny to do so. Variance was advised but poor sod has no chance of paying for it after the latest case she took he's skint. Poor sod rarely goes out and I know what he drives - we're talking a car reg in single figures. He should have had the snip the minute that woman looked at him. Look I can't say much more or it will be too much info. All I can say is if I had to pay over 63K a year plus medical and education for our three kids I'd be working 16 hours a day. Judges and maths do not go. A maths teacher would have made a different order. I reckon it will take it will take 20 or 30 years before we wake up and see changes coming in family law and the money machine that are the legals and the manipulation of the women. At least his new woman is a looker and he can keep the light on! If she was honest he wouldn't mind, but the lies and false statements on affidavit were taking the mick. Read of one case recently where a chap took a case re perjury in family law case to the Gardaí - they are investigating it. My mate is burnt out at this stage.
Where did she get the cash from?Thirsty I have a sense that you're going to keep at this like a dog with a bone. She cries - she lies - he pays - that's it in a nutshell. The woman bought a bigger house for cash. No mortgage - cash! The ex will be stuck in a two bed house for god knows how long. Their income is the same - or possibly she earns more as she is known to under declare her actual extra income......I'll leave it at that. That's the truth of it.
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