Maintainence query

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jewley99

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Hi all, can I have some advice please?
I am divorced living with partner and his child who is in college but my partner supports her as under 23y
I have 2 teenagers.
My ex takes them 10 days a month and 1 wknd a month so 12/30 days

He earns ~45k
I earn~ 33k
my partner earns ~30k
our mortgage is €1200/month

My ex pays €400 maintainence a month for last 6 years but also pays half school books and uniform etc for back to school.

My question is he now wants to reduce his payment and I feel that they are getting more expensive to maintain, but I also want to be fair. I find it hard to live as it is.
Am I being unreasonable? Should he reduce payments?
Advice welcome, Thanks