PS;agree fully with independend insurance broker advice. I took out life insurance on both lives ( cu/mrs cu) around 1995 in not altogether different circumstances than your own, mid 40's and both my children were younger.took out a policy which increased yearly in line with inflation ( normal) and paid on both deaths. there was a 5 yearly review. 2000 passed ok but in 2005 the insurance company wrote to me stating that the premium I was paying wasn't sufficient to cover the amount of life cover and that I had two choices. either up the premium or reduce the life cover. I reduced the life cover on the grounds that it would start increasing again with the yearly inflation increase. However earlier this year and now retired from my previous job I decided to do a root and branch examination of outgoings etc. had a talk with an independent broker and he informed me that in about 3 years time the company I was with were likely to repeat the 2005 three card trick. ie not paying enough premium for amount of life cover. and ditto for 2015/2020 etc. I asked him to provide me with new quotes and he had a few suggestions one of which I am happy with. Cover is now more than original company, Premium is about 5c per week higher ( monthly direct debit) there is serious illness cover( Which I didn't have ) but the most important part is that apart from the yearly increase for inflation - which you can refuse at any time- there is no review of the policy for the next 20 years. He did warn me however that when the review took place I would be in for a shock as the increase was likely to be quite large. I replied that if I am still around 20 years from now and still healthy/lucid wouldn't I be the happy bunny. watch those 5 yearly review policies. they start screwing you after 10 years. I went to him as he was recommended and he didn't charge as I took out the new policy and I am well aware he got paid by the insurance company. bottom line for me however is that I now have slightly more cover. have illness cover and there is no increase outside of the normal inflation one for the next 20 years.