I got married in Japan in 2004 in a Japanese registry office but sent our marriage and birth certs to the Irish embassy in Tokyo to make it legal in Ireland.
In the last 4 and a half years we have not lived together 3 times. This time we have been apart for 1 and a half years.
I have been told that if we divorced in Japan it could be done in 1 day but we both live in Ireland now and she says she'll only divorce in Ireland and will try and take anything I have off me. We do not own a house or have anything of real value.
All I want to do is cut our ties and move on with my life but she wants to make me suffer.
How do I go about getting a legal separation even if she doesn't want one?
All of the documentation is in Japanese which she has and will not hand over to me.
At the moment she said she wants a separation but she has said this before numerous times and backed out.
Thanks.