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MaryM37
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This was deleted and I am unsure why? Dr Debt thanks for your comments and having a third party attend the next meeting to assist in poaaible negiotation would be great anyone have a suggestion of a person used previously. My Spouse did mention that he was looking at bankruptcy and they (the bank) advised against this of course
If anyone can PM with suggestions of someone to consult to attend the next meeting as my spouse has always met with them and engaged as he wants to solve this somehow
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Age: 45
Spouse’s/Partner's age: 42
Annual gross income from employment or profession: 45,000
Annual gross income of spouse:60,000
Monthly take-home pay 5,300
Type of employment: e.g. Civil Servant, self-employed
1/ Civil Servant
2. Spouse works for private company
In general are you:
(a) spending more than you earn, or
(b) saving?
A
Rough estimate of value of home
Apt 1.Mine - 90,000
Apt 2. His - 110,000
Amount outstanding on your mortgage:
Apt 1. €140,000 - tracker
Apt 2. €325,000 - SVR 4.5% - Arrears: €59,000
What interest rate are you paying?
Apt 1. Tracker (Need to check)
Apt 2. 4.5%
Other borrowings – car loans/personal loans etc
Apt 1. Maintenance fee owed 4,000
Apt 2. Maintenance fee owed 1,000
Do you pay off your full credit card balance each month?
No
If not, what is the balance on your credit card?
€2000
Savings and investments:
No
Do you have a pension scheme?
Contribution pension for past 9 years
Spouse None
Do you own any investment or other property?
No
Ages of children:
2Years
Life insurance:
Death benefit from work for both of us
What specific question do you have or what issues are of concern to you?
More details:
My spouse’s dilemma. He was self employed (50% shareholding). Business not yet closed, still acting as a director, but earnings now at zero. Previous earnings since 2009 fell to €600 per month
Recently secured a six month PAYE employee contract working out at €60k per annum.
Spouse now owes 325K on a two bedroom apartment that is now worth €110k. 59K now in arrears. Payment per month for mortgage is €1,650, just rented it at €900 per month.
My Apt is about €1000 a month and rents for €800. Unfortunately, spouse’s apartment is totally unsuitable for raising family and not in the best area in Dublin. We are now living in a rented house at €1400 per month to be near an elderly mother in law.Cannot sustain this. No life savings, need to pay crèche €700 per month plus additional payments for childcare every 3-4 months of 200-300 euro as I travel for work and need care for after crèche while spouse commutes home. Spouse’s apartment is a disaster. No quality of life. May need to emigrate to raise family…
Bank is now asking to sell apartment or they will sell it. Only completed finance statement last month. Meeting after submitting statement only lasted 15 minutes. Only two options were given. Will he give the apartment up voluntary or did he want to sell it.
They say my spouse will owe balance. 210k. Spouse has no other assets , no other loans and apartment is only in his name. He says he may need now go to the UK to declare bankruptcy. He has no interest in the apartment and sees it as an impediment for us to grow as a family to support our child.
In addition his mother is elderly and spouse could inherit a home that we do not wish to lose as it could be a family home for us some day if we can afford the inheritance tax. Bank it seems is 100% immune from the economic downturn. The bank he deals with is not backed by the Irish government so Irish tax payer has zero exposure.
What should we/he do? Our properties are in our separate names (Apt one owend by myself and apt 2 by spouse) so we keep separate bank accounts and all elec and household bills are paid by spouse and all else by myself. It seems impossible to catch up and I don’t want to park the owed money to keep adding interest as it seems unsustainable and I would do anything to get rid of this debt to start again and hang onto my own apt so my child has something for their future.
I want to start a savings and have emergency money as my family live abroad and are elderly.
Please advise and realise we in the past just got by during the Celtic tiger and got into trouble when the business went down as it was not a huge money maker and we have the usual life issues we all have these days.
_______________________________
Age: 45
Spouse’s/Partner's age: 42
Annual gross income from employment or profession: 45,000
Annual gross income of spouse:60,000
Monthly take-home pay 5,300
Type of employment: e.g. Civil Servant, self-employed
1/ Civil Servant
2. Spouse works for private company
In general are you:
(a) spending more than you earn, or
(b) saving?
A
Rough estimate of value of home
Apt 1.Mine - 90,000
Apt 2. His - 110,000
Amount outstanding on your mortgage:
Apt 1. €140,000 - tracker
Apt 2. €325,000 - SVR 4.5% - Arrears: €59,000
What interest rate are you paying?
Apt 1. Tracker (Need to check)
Apt 2. 4.5%
Other borrowings – car loans/personal loans etc
Apt 1. Maintenance fee owed 4,000
Apt 2. Maintenance fee owed 1,000
Do you pay off your full credit card balance each month?
No
If not, what is the balance on your credit card?
€2000
Savings and investments:
No
Do you have a pension scheme?
Contribution pension for past 9 years
Spouse None
Do you own any investment or other property?
No
Ages of children:
2Years
Life insurance:
Death benefit from work for both of us
What specific question do you have or what issues are of concern to you?
More details:
My spouse’s dilemma. He was self employed (50% shareholding). Business not yet closed, still acting as a director, but earnings now at zero. Previous earnings since 2009 fell to €600 per month
Recently secured a six month PAYE employee contract working out at €60k per annum.
Spouse now owes 325K on a two bedroom apartment that is now worth €110k. 59K now in arrears. Payment per month for mortgage is €1,650, just rented it at €900 per month.
My Apt is about €1000 a month and rents for €800. Unfortunately, spouse’s apartment is totally unsuitable for raising family and not in the best area in Dublin. We are now living in a rented house at €1400 per month to be near an elderly mother in law.Cannot sustain this. No life savings, need to pay crèche €700 per month plus additional payments for childcare every 3-4 months of 200-300 euro as I travel for work and need care for after crèche while spouse commutes home. Spouse’s apartment is a disaster. No quality of life. May need to emigrate to raise family…
Bank is now asking to sell apartment or they will sell it. Only completed finance statement last month. Meeting after submitting statement only lasted 15 minutes. Only two options were given. Will he give the apartment up voluntary or did he want to sell it.
They say my spouse will owe balance. 210k. Spouse has no other assets , no other loans and apartment is only in his name. He says he may need now go to the UK to declare bankruptcy. He has no interest in the apartment and sees it as an impediment for us to grow as a family to support our child.
In addition his mother is elderly and spouse could inherit a home that we do not wish to lose as it could be a family home for us some day if we can afford the inheritance tax. Bank it seems is 100% immune from the economic downturn. The bank he deals with is not backed by the Irish government so Irish tax payer has zero exposure.
What should we/he do? Our properties are in our separate names (Apt one owend by myself and apt 2 by spouse) so we keep separate bank accounts and all elec and household bills are paid by spouse and all else by myself. It seems impossible to catch up and I don’t want to park the owed money to keep adding interest as it seems unsustainable and I would do anything to get rid of this debt to start again and hang onto my own apt so my child has something for their future.
I want to start a savings and have emergency money as my family live abroad and are elderly.
Please advise and realise we in the past just got by during the Celtic tiger and got into trouble when the business went down as it was not a huge money maker and we have the usual life issues we all have these days.
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