Thanks for the reply, yes I suppose some forms could be be spares, and it would be easy to blow things out of proportion in the heat of the moment.
The land registry amendment was definately carried out without my knowledge. And the bank accounts, well again I only have blank application forms but they were with a different bank from mortgage.
Have asked solicitor and mortage lender to send on documents. Still have to wade trough the other bank stuff, buiness accounts, etc. But something isn't right.
Anyway I have to get the house in order, needs tidying. And I'm still trying to get aceess to my 8yr old son who has gone with her.....