Well I've had 2 Minis both Cooper S models, 04 and 06, in dark grey metallic - only available on the Cooper S, and can say with confidence that if you've ever driven one you wouldn't think it a girly car, they are terrific fun to drive and very fast indeed. The supercharger makes a lovely noise and if you get one with tan coloured leather seats and a panoramic roof then they don't seem small inside at all. Don't pay extra for satnav.
BUT, the boot is non-existent and they are only averagely reliable, if that. They are expensive to fix and the Cooper S drinks petrol, the 1.6 supercharged engine may be powerful but you pay for it at the pumps. The newer turbocharged model is more economical.