just find it tedious how some people flippantly tell you to put it down to bad luck or bend over backwards to explain away any care of duty or responsibility the other guy might have , almost as if the crisis here was his primarily , effectively portraying me as a trouble maker who at best created the problem by not doing a " proper risk assessment " or at worst as a con man out to fleece someone
i dont like using that term " troll " but i dont believe many of the posters for a second would practice what they preach were they in the same boat as myself