Well the asset is, of course, a house and it would be a bad wrench for the relative to have to give it up: it was always the plan of the departed that my relative would move into the house.
So in the absence of disabilities and the fact that my relative is a pensioner (and thus not really in a position to take up a loan) she'll have to sell the house that's been in her family for generations?
We'd be willing to chip in to pay it off as a loan at ECB interest rates, of course. If needs be, we'll set up a fund to pay it off. Pay X thousand out of pocket and the rest as a loan.