Hi NM,
I really have no idea if movements between north and south can be monitored, besides the toll bridges, which can be avoided, ( now sounding like a criminal on the run, but sadly, thats what we have been reduced to!!) I am just stating fact, besides, a wife cannot be mentioned in this case unless she is up here too, all ties with the south must be severed, . believe me, you need to be so well prepared for judge kelly, she'll tie you up in knots. unless by chance the husband in question is originally from the north,?? its only southerners she has a problem with.?? \and yes, nobody seems to talk about the difficulty up here, I certainly learned the hard way, maybe they are too ashamed and too demoralized to talk, when so many are gloating about the relaxed system in the uk