When can you decide that you are where you want to be?
How do people know that they are satisfied with their lot?
I am a full time working mother with two small kids and a very hard working husband.
The thing is I feel like we are constantly working towards some ideal in the future rather than concentrating on the here and now.
We are saving money in our SSIAs.
Buying investment properties.
Working every hour God sends.
Thinking maybe we would like another child.
The list is endless.
How do people decide they are satisfied with the life they have?
I mean that their family is complete, they like their house, their car, their lifestyle, their income, their work/play balance of time.
I sometimes wonder if we will ever get to that point we seem to be constantly striving towards somewhere in the distant future.
Is anyone at a stage in their life where they feel this is it, this is what it was all for and this is how it should be?
I'd love to hear from someone who is in the utopian land we seem to be struggling towards.
How do people know that they are satisfied with their lot?
I am a full time working mother with two small kids and a very hard working husband.
The thing is I feel like we are constantly working towards some ideal in the future rather than concentrating on the here and now.
We are saving money in our SSIAs.
Buying investment properties.
Working every hour God sends.
Thinking maybe we would like another child.
The list is endless.
How do people decide they are satisfied with the life they have?
I mean that their family is complete, they like their house, their car, their lifestyle, their income, their work/play balance of time.
I sometimes wonder if we will ever get to that point we seem to be constantly striving towards somewhere in the distant future.
Is anyone at a stage in their life where they feel this is it, this is what it was all for and this is how it should be?
I'd love to hear from someone who is in the utopian land we seem to be struggling towards.