Capricorn 1
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whos going to turn ye over in ye nursing home beds after ye spoiled privileged kids bang ye in there.
are ye going to ask them than how much ye have cost the state.
your life someday might depend on a child of a single parent
Don't beat yourselves up too much about it guys whos going to turn ye over in ye nursing home beds after ye spoiled privileged kids bang ye in there. are ye going to ask them than how much ye have cost the state. your life someday might depend on a child of a single parent .
This thread is obnoxious. I am a single parent who works full time to pay for a mortgage and childcare. I should also point out that I waited not just until my 30's but until I was 40 to have a child and ended up a single parent statistic through no fault of my own. Sh8t happens. It's called 'Life'.
Why are you singling out single mothers as creating a 'dependency' culture/generation. 'Single mothers' are after all, the parent that STAYED. Not all of us are here as some kind of 'career move' as it was implied in an earlier post and let me tell you, it is one of the most difficult jobs on the planet.
I wish you all well with your perfect, suburban 2.3 child lives (that you waited until you were in your 30s and financially solvent to have).
I resent as much as any of you, the heavily dependent welfare culture that exists in this State as one of the 'squeezed middle' that gets up early for Leo and pays her way. You might all put your heads together and think about renaming this thread and redirecting your frustration at those that do not contribute and have no intention of ever doing so.
But stop blaming single mothers and their kids.
I never get inured to being maligned. You're wrong - it's not just 'good fun'. Such views perpetuate a stigma of single parenthood and contribute to an already very uncaring society in general. You might take a minute to think about the women who have risked their lives to save their kids and get away from abusive or possibly alcoholic partners. You might have a think about some of the statistics mentioned here:Ah Danmo you get inured to it.
Single parents , culture of dependency , unemployed households , public sector , trade unions , social welfare payments et al .
Just accept that it's a sounding board for a relatively small number of members which really has no effect on the real world .
Still good fun & enjoyable & educational diverse views abound
As a single father I don’t have a problem with this thread.
The question was how much do one parent families get in welfare payments. That’s a question, not an accusation.
A working father who has his children half the time gets absolutely nothing. Their mother, who also works, (earning significantly more than him) and gets whatever support there is, as well as a higher tax free allowance. That’s unfair but in the majority of cases where one parent is not pulling their weight it is the father so it is understandable that the system is skewed towards mothers.
I know two individuals who bought houses and then rented them to the mothers of their children who fraudulently claim to be single parents. They live there with their partner and their kids. Both have been reported to Welfare but nothing has happened. That sort of thing, while not a big thing on a national scale, is an emotive example of what bothers people about our welfare system. I think it is reasonable to say that those people are part of the small group of people who are part of the long term welfare culture rather than being part of some sub-set which can be categorised as lone parents. In other words the people who abuse this part of the welfare system probably abuse the welfare system in general and are inter-generational scroungers.
I did a calculation - and worked out that a lone parent , 2 children under 7 , working 3hrs a day getting 140 euro a week wage - would end up with about €630 a week incl child benefit, FIS and OPB. Ignoring the Child Benefit - because everyone gets that - that works out as about €530 a week - which is €27.7k "take home".
Someone just working would have to earn about €36k to get that.
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