The last wedding I was at the bridesmaid made a speech but the bride didn't. If you are going to be at the whole wedding how can you miss the speeches.
Mpsox;887479 Be aware also that some weddings like to do the speeches before the meal said:Also gets them out of the way so that the Groom, bestman etc can relax and enjoy the meal and a few glasses of wine. I think it's a great idea. I would be a nervous wreck if I had to make a speech and wouldn't be able to eat a thing.
Normally I can't here them rabbiting on from the bar...... If you are going to be at the whole wedding how can you miss the speeches.