I self-installed a couple of these in my house recently. They are fairly quiet, although when they detect humidity (which not all models will by the way!) and ramp up if I listen carefully I can hear them in the bathroom that is close to the unit, further away rooms are virtually silent.
If you take a look at the unit the screen will tell you the percentage of total power the fan is running at, default is 30% in normal mode, 50% when humidity is detected. You could also pop off a vent cover and try to hold a piece of paper across it, it should be obvious if air is flowing.