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She lives with her folks though! I would assume that means she's somewhat "still being taken care of" so if there was an emergency they would probably want to help out.
The fact that she wants to take out more loans rather than use her savings makes me think her lack of financial skills are going to continue for some time...
With no debts you could probably borrow for such emergencies. If the chosen option in this case is to keep the savings but borrow more to consolidate the debts then that, to me, is really crazy.Savings are important to have no matter what the debt. Having no money when you've an emergency like needing to go abroad for the funeral of a close friend/relative can be agonising.
you can't expect someone to have no life for 5 years (while they're in their prime)
I actually can't believe that the OP was able to get so much credit. It's crazy. I earn €50k pa and her level of personal debt is equivalent, in relative terms, to my having €60k unsecured personal debt. It's bizarre
just reading this now, no offence intended but i think this is rather a silly statement to be honest.
But she does have debts and if there's some emergency she's surely better off by having instant access to saving funds like with AIB as opposed to having to organise the borrowing of more money.With no debts you could probably borrow for such emergencies. If the chosen option in this case is to keep the savings but borrow more to consolidate the debts then that, to me, is really crazy.
That depends on how badly she wants to pay off her debt now doesn't it! Personally i could not justify the €1 - €1.5 holiday if i had a €30 k debt mountain (thats the cost of the cheapest foreign holiday with the girls in your 20's), i know it wouldn't do me any good at all.Are you saying she should have no holidays until however long the debt takes to be paid off?
Agreed.For someone with a big debt, a big enough expenditure like a holiday should be saved for in advance and not just thrown on a credit card or have a loan taken out.
I havent missed repayments but I can see it happening in the future.
Thanks to everyone who has contributed to this thread so far, Your advice has been so helpful. Keep it coming!
I appreciate what you are saying but im with joe on this one. I want to have an emergency fund. As i said I will some of my savings to get it started but I wont use them all. And I take offence to some of the remarks that were made. Yes its my own fault for getting into this mess and I want more than ever to get it under control. I do not need people putting me down for it. I have made a mistake and am holding my hands up and doing somethin about it. Noone is perfect, and we all leanr from our mistakes
irishpancake said:If you don't do something asap, and you do miss any payment, particularly CC debt, you will then have a black mark against you for the next 5 years with the ICB,
I appreciate what you are saying but im with joe on this one. I want to have an emergency fund. As i said I will some of my savings to get it started but I wont use them all. And I take offence to some of the remarks that were made. Yes its my own fault for getting into this mess and I want more than ever to get it under control. I do not need people putting me down for it. I have made a mistake and am holding my hands up and doing somethin about it. Noone is perfect, and we all leanr from our mistakes
Have you a car that you could trade down with and use the extra funds to reduce your debt?
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