Hi thank you everyone for all the suggestions, ended up booking the McWilliam park hotel in Mayo through the lidl breaks deals, 3 nights b&b and 2 course dinners with tea/coffee each evening for €294 the hotel contacted me yesterday to say we could upgrade to full alacarte dinner for €5ea extra per night and €2ea to upgrade to full breakfast, fruit, danish etc, the lidl deal only covers an irish fry, hotel looks nice full swimming pool, jacuzzi, spa etc so fingers crossed it works our OK