I am in the same boat DaisyDuck, Fixed with IIB / KBC at 5.99% until 2013.
My Break Fee is currently at a petite figure of €23,000. I'd love to be sitting on a lump of money like that but there's no way there is a possibility of paying it although it rises steadily as rates drop.
I've had three discussions with IIB customer care staff. One discussion was very interesting. I was given an option to break for €18,000 at the time. I was told there was potential to wrap it onto the mortgage, extend the years and pay it off over 35 years again. (they mentioned the rules on this had already changed to being allowed only add €1,500 onto the mortgage and paying the remainder from personal sources; it was suggested this could be over-looked given difficulty with payments).
Also, when they discussed my case with their colleague, there was additional tentative advice to wait a few months. They suggested there may be movement on the break funding fee rule in the coming months due to the number of people having trouble with repayments on the higher rate. This was not a definite. But the discussion ended by weighing up whether I risk loosing the €18,000 by breaking now and finding the rule changing OR waiting for the rule to change with no success and left looking at a higher breaking fee in the future. I was left with 5 days fix on that fee cost to decide what to do.
In another discussion I had with a more senior IIB advisor, I queried this suggestion. They denied this was a possibility.
It could be nothing.... and lets face it i'm gladly grasping at straws.....
but I did think it was interesting.
For now... I stay indoors saving for the next month because either way I ain't got 23 grand!