Hi Prosper,
I'll get a photo tomorrow.
Yes, the pillar interlocks with, and is fully integrated with my wall, it is the end bit of the new wall section. There is a small gap between it and my neighbours wall. The support pillar/blockwork unfortunately is all on his side. Not sure what the thickness is but I think it's the narrower as you describe because there are several of these wider support 'pillars' along it. If cut away, it will leave my wall ending with a narrow profile.
There is a fence down the side boundary that abuts the wall but it is separate with a strong post embedded in concrete. It probably wouldn't be damaged but he wants to remove the last section of this fence which is in poor condition and replace it.
He only announced all this by the way today when I questioned him about sawing off a bit of the boundary fence, which I also paid for, but which he doesnt care about either! It's his boundary fence too he says, which is correct also.