Financial Help for caring for a relative?

E

Ell69

Guest
Hi all,:) I'll try to make this a short as possible.
My husband and I who have 3 other children took my nephew in when he was 2 to live with us, he is now 7,(he's my sisters child)
Social workers had placed him in foster care. Anyway we requested that he be placed with us. Domicilary care allowance transfered over from his foster family, he had a lot of medical problems then.
We received DCA until three months into his care here, also granted Carers allowance. We were also granted joing guardianship along with hs mother. Though she has no contact with him.
3 months into his placement here with us, DCA was cut off, as senior medical officer saw my nephew could walk n talk etc. He has since been diagnosed with dyspraxia and has an SNA in school. He is difficult to look after 24/7 care n attention.
All this time we continued to receive Cares allowance, only to be told a few days ago that we no longer qualify for this as we dont get Domicillary care allowance for him.
IT took them 5 years to tell us this btw.
I have got a form for DCA and not holding much hope in being granted it as his problems arent medical, they are to do with his dyspraxia, ie, his motors skills etc.
I'm wondering if we dont get DCA does anyone know what I am entitled to financially for this child.
Legally my husband is not responsible for this child, he's not his. The state entrusted him in our care, so what payment am I entitled to for his upkeep.
Can we look into fostering him while already being granted joint guardianship?. Would this be an option.
Financially we won't be able to cope without financial assistance.
 
Yourself and your husband requested that the child live with you when he was two years old, therefore, you cannot blame the state for entrusing him in your care.

You say your husband is not responsible for this child yet it was a joint decision that the child would come and live with you. At the time, did you not discuss in full or were you both not aware of the huge responsibilities that comes with looking after a child with special needs.

I feel you should be receiving some allowance for looking after a child that requires 24/7 care and attention but morally you agreed to look after the child when he was only two and he has built up an attachment with your family, it will be very traumatic if he was returned to the care of social services.

Maybe you should appeal the decision to stop your carers allowance
 
Back
Top