J
Jan31
Guest
Hi,
Just wondering if anyone has any ideas on this one. My partner has a 7 year old with an ex, who he hadnt seen for 4 years, she got back in touch last october asking him to see the child as she felt it was in his best interest. My partner was only to happy to spend some time getting to know him, he also offered to pay maintenance each month to help out. Since then she has made life a misery for us, he can only see him when she says so the clothes we bought for him arent good enough she looks for reciepts the whole time, she tells the child he cannot stay over ( we decorated a room for him ) unless he sleeps with his father. She also tells him not to be telling people that his father has another child. Yesterday my partner recieved a letter summoning him to court as he hasnt been paying maintenance, I have kept the reciepts from the postal orders to prove this only she asked us not to put her name on them as it was difficult for her to get to the post office and if her name was on it on one else could change it for her, we agreed but after contacting a solicitor it seems that she might of done this to allow her to collect her social welfare benifits, solicitor seems to think were screwed.As the postal order could of been for any purpose. Does anyone know if this is the case. All replies greatly recieved. Thanks
Just wondering if anyone has any ideas on this one. My partner has a 7 year old with an ex, who he hadnt seen for 4 years, she got back in touch last october asking him to see the child as she felt it was in his best interest. My partner was only to happy to spend some time getting to know him, he also offered to pay maintenance each month to help out. Since then she has made life a misery for us, he can only see him when she says so the clothes we bought for him arent good enough she looks for reciepts the whole time, she tells the child he cannot stay over ( we decorated a room for him ) unless he sleeps with his father. She also tells him not to be telling people that his father has another child. Yesterday my partner recieved a letter summoning him to court as he hasnt been paying maintenance, I have kept the reciepts from the postal orders to prove this only she asked us not to put her name on them as it was difficult for her to get to the post office and if her name was on it on one else could change it for her, we agreed but after contacting a solicitor it seems that she might of done this to allow her to collect her social welfare benifits, solicitor seems to think were screwed.As the postal order could of been for any purpose. Does anyone know if this is the case. All replies greatly recieved. Thanks