Sorry, as you can see that was my first post so a) I genuinely wasn't sure if I needed to add what happened with the previous FD application (though, now that I'm in a more logical frame of mind since my OP, I see it was rather an necessity) and b) I don't have exact figures relating to income or expenses, I've asked prior to posting this but my mother doesn't want to talk about it until she has met with hospital officials next week. I think what she has coming in is a disability payment and my father's state pension, I'm not aware of any other income.
My mother had applied for the Fair Deal scheme when my father was put in a Private Nursing Home in 2010. When he was removed in the same year - he had to be sectioned for violent behaviour (often a symptom of Alzheimer's) he was put into a psychiatric ward in a public hospital for three months. I don't know what happened but I don't believe there was any follow up regarding the deal because he was in the ward for three months then transferred to what is technically an assessment ward in a HSE nursing home (but patients have been there for years). He has been in this ward since then but now all patients are being moved.
Billo - thanks for the link, I'm wondering how much has changed since 2009 so I may need to look for more up to date information but that will give me an idea of what to look for. Elcato, AFAIK once he was put into a psychiatric ward while the previous application was being assessed there was no more about the Fair Deal application. I realise I need to get more details re: what she was paying out, but all I can get right now is that she was paying just over 2 grand a month on fees while waiting for approval on the FD. Black Sheep I understand it is based on an ability to pay but my mother is running a house that only she lives in that she says she cannot sell and she says her cost of running her house and paying bills will take what she is left with if my father is to be admitted to this new ward under the FD. At present the cost of fees in this "assessment ward" are €1,100 per month and a move to a permanent bed will be approx. 2 grand and she is telling me with the FD scheme (which it seems she will have to re-apply for) and minus pension reductions she will not be financially secure.
I apologise for not being able to present all the facts, I've found it hard to get my head around the financial aspects of my father's care because there has been so much movement so I am sorry that it doesn't add up. I normally don't post messages on a forum that prompt more answers than questions because that leaves responders without full possession of facts, but I guess I was wondering in a general way if anyone has been faced with extreme difficulty living off the 20% of income left over and has ever challenged it. It was probably foolish to post here without all the relevant information and thanks to those who did respond despite the lack of info I could supply.