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Mckers111
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I am just wondering if any member has a relative who is in a nursing home under the Fair Deal scheme and if they have encountered issues with it or would have some knowledge of how it works.
My father who is in the last stages of dementia is currently in a psychiatric ward in a HSE nursing home. They are now moving him to another ward in the hospital but they now want to talk to us about the Fair Deal Scheme because with the move the fees would go up. My mother, who is in charge of all financial matters had applied for it previously when he was in a private nursing home and the fees were about €2,000 a month - but this was before pension reductions, and since then she says she now has €800 less. She says if she has to apply for the scheme she will be left with nothing. One piece of advice she received was to downgrade her home but the deeds are in my fathers name and she has told me she cannot do that even if she wanted to, which at nearly 60 having been through a horrific experience with his health issues she doesn't particular want to. I've helped out financially in the past but I'm now unemployed and I'm just keeping my own head about water, and there really isn't anyone else in our family who could help.
As bad as things are, I cannot believe that they would leave her with no option but to apply for this scheme, pay the fees and expect her to live off the remainder, which she said wouldn't cover food or petrol because it would all go into paying the bills for the house. I'm just looking for any advice that someone familiar with this might have as all I can offer is support and reassurance to her at this point. Apologies if I'm scant on certain details, I'm still not in possession of all specifics from her (e.g. what the fees will be, it's estimated around 2 grand).
My father who is in the last stages of dementia is currently in a psychiatric ward in a HSE nursing home. They are now moving him to another ward in the hospital but they now want to talk to us about the Fair Deal Scheme because with the move the fees would go up. My mother, who is in charge of all financial matters had applied for it previously when he was in a private nursing home and the fees were about €2,000 a month - but this was before pension reductions, and since then she says she now has €800 less. She says if she has to apply for the scheme she will be left with nothing. One piece of advice she received was to downgrade her home but the deeds are in my fathers name and she has told me she cannot do that even if she wanted to, which at nearly 60 having been through a horrific experience with his health issues she doesn't particular want to. I've helped out financially in the past but I'm now unemployed and I'm just keeping my own head about water, and there really isn't anyone else in our family who could help.
As bad as things are, I cannot believe that they would leave her with no option but to apply for this scheme, pay the fees and expect her to live off the remainder, which she said wouldn't cover food or petrol because it would all go into paying the bills for the house. I'm just looking for any advice that someone familiar with this might have as all I can offer is support and reassurance to her at this point. Apologies if I'm scant on certain details, I'm still not in possession of all specifics from her (e.g. what the fees will be, it's estimated around 2 grand).