3mm gaps may have been necessary but during the winter IMO, just a gentle tap together. There would have been instructions in the packs, what did they state. About suppliers, my brother works in a major home store and he is an expert on tiling, flooring, plumbing, electrics, carpentry, stoves etc etc. He has never held a hammer let alone a nail in his life, he has never laid a floor etc etc. But my god he can talk the talk to get a sale, anything to sell the product, anything to make it sound he knows what he's talking about.