My brother and I are the executors on our mothers will.
After she died we agreed that he would go to the solicitor and initiate the legal work. I gave him some of the necessary documents but it was he who had all the contact with the solicitor. I assumed that a time would come where we would both attend and sign where needed.
However, I recently received a letter from the solicitor now enclosing a Grant of Probate solely in my brother's name stating on it "Reserving the rights of the other Executor". This caused me great distress as at no stage was I ever asked if I wished to reserve my rights. (I most definitely did not want this.)
I rang the solicitor who was incredibly rude, said he didn't have to ask me as he had never met me, proceeded to "talk over me" and ultimately hung up (My brother has since given me a copy of the probate application form he completed and my name, details etc were on this, so I am at a loss to know what happened)
Could anyone please tell me if my rights can be reserved without ever asking me, and also if I can be added back in. Also did the solicitor act inappropriately? This is entirely an emotional issue for me as I looked after my mother for a long time, and in no way does it affect inheritance etc.
Btw I had, as administrator, already carried out one task in paying my mother's house insurance following her death, and question if this qualifies as intermeddling?
After she died we agreed that he would go to the solicitor and initiate the legal work. I gave him some of the necessary documents but it was he who had all the contact with the solicitor. I assumed that a time would come where we would both attend and sign where needed.
However, I recently received a letter from the solicitor now enclosing a Grant of Probate solely in my brother's name stating on it "Reserving the rights of the other Executor". This caused me great distress as at no stage was I ever asked if I wished to reserve my rights. (I most definitely did not want this.)
I rang the solicitor who was incredibly rude, said he didn't have to ask me as he had never met me, proceeded to "talk over me" and ultimately hung up (My brother has since given me a copy of the probate application form he completed and my name, details etc were on this, so I am at a loss to know what happened)
Could anyone please tell me if my rights can be reserved without ever asking me, and also if I can be added back in. Also did the solicitor act inappropriately? This is entirely an emotional issue for me as I looked after my mother for a long time, and in no way does it affect inheritance etc.
Btw I had, as administrator, already carried out one task in paying my mother's house insurance following her death, and question if this qualifies as intermeddling?