thank you, sorry to hear about your friend, i am hoping to go to see a solictor tomorrow, and get some advise, avoided it as didnt want the expense as well as everything else, if bank refuses to let me take mortgage over in my sole name, it it possible to just give the keys back to the bank, would this affect my credit rating aswell. If it wasnt for my child i would move back into property tomorrow, I just dont want my child living it that horrible athmosphere.As no profit on the house the amount outstanding on the loan is the value of the house do I have to offer ex some money.