If you are wiring with standard (i.e coax, cat5 etc), here is what I reckon would be the bare min.
Living Room
4 x coax cables fed back to central point (2 for sky+, one for feeding it back up to other rooms, one for external ariel feed). Use high quality coax here, as it is required for sattelite feed.
1 Phone point (again for sky)
1 x ethernet point for BB, XBOX etc (TV will be via ethernet and bb in the future, and to some degree even is today. Also ethernet for a hometheatre pc
Wiring for surround sound (speaker wiring simply)in this room also.
Consider where you are going to place an LCD, and ensure you can run cables to this from your sky box etc with ease (and I do not mean coax, see below).
I would not recommend locating your sky box etc out of your main living room. The reason for this, is if you want to use high definiation, this cannot be done over coax, so you need to have the set top box close to your tv, and this means in the same room. For other rooms where you distribute your sky to, then thats okay over coax, asa generally you wont want High def on smaller tv's around the house, its a bit of a waste.
Central HUB
This is where all of the above will be wired back to (except for the surround sound speakers etc). In here, again, run 4 high quuality coax cables, but this time down from your attic, so the sky installer can use them, and they in turn will be joined/extended into your main living room, as you already have run 4 cables into there.
Your phone line and Broadband should also come into this point, that is this point will be the first place that they arrive and terminate in.
Alarm system should also have all your sensors wired back to this point, as this is the best place to locate your main alarm panel. I would recommend, on the alarm front, wiring a cat5 cable to each point in the hosue where you plan to have an alarm keypad (front and rear door perhaps). Some of the better quality alarm systems need good quality cat5 to the keypads, as they run audio and telephone etc into the keypads now.
Power, leave lots of power points in this space, as you will need them for BB router, alarm system, multiroom audio if you plan to go this route and other things.
Rest of House:-
Anywhere you want a tv, put in a coax point, and a cat-5 cable, and a phone cable. They can all be terminated in the one outlet to keep things tidy and prevent "wall acne" with loads of sockets etc. Consider running speaker wire out to the garden for those nice summer BBQ's etc.
Depending on how big your house is, what its made of, and where you locate your central cabling, you may need to add a wireless extender to give wifi coverage about the house. This can be done easiest by running another ethernet point upstairs next to a power point for example.
Plan where you want any other computers, games machines etc, and provision for ethernet back to your central wiring point also.
If you are planning a home office, then a bit more thought will be required here also.
Even for a standard home, rather than having a bog standard printer, go for a networked printer, so you can hide it away. You can get these very cheaply now, wired and/or wireless, but.......... Go for wired!!!
That and a NAS
Finally, a couple of things to consider.
If you would like to go the route of multiroom audio, then plan for the wiring of it. Do not rely on wireless if you can avoid it, always go for wired. I am referring to Sonos here, where you can go wired or wireless for example. Wire it, it will be best in the long run.
TV distribution. When you consider tv distribution, remember a few things. You need to be able to control your source equipment from the remote tv's. This can be relatively straight forward, particularly if you are using sky, but there are other external ways of doing this also. Some of the are done wirelessly, some wired. Go for wired....
Another point to remember, you cannot distribute dvd signal over coax, even if you put some fancy modulator in it. It might work, but its not relaible. I did it myself a few years ago and it was a disaster. DVD has a facility called "macrovision" which, if enabled on a dvd disc (and it is in a lot if i remember correctly), it distorts the picture if it is modulated. Its a sort of copyright protection thing. If you want to distribute DVD around the house, you need to look at doing it via a cat5 type solution, and the plus here is, that many of these solutions also do the remote control element too. They are not cheap, relative to the cost of putting in a bog standard coax, but worth it in my opinion.
Regards,
Wexfordman