Hi Blueskie,
I know its much later, but i just heard of a great thing, a girl i know needed handy work done in house no money, so she opted to mind this couples kids for weekend and the husband did the bits she needed doing, tit for tat, maybe you could do something like that to get curtains up.
45 per month, is not huge on gym and I am with you there, I am in the horrors and without my swim etc I dont know how i would cope, so try hold on to that,
we both changed to meteor, €20 per month free calls meteor to meteor and then€20 to spend on others, and I think at moment they are giving another €20 when you buy so thats good.
For christmas I am giving the rest of family, babysitting vouchers or dinner vouchers in my house! and you know thats a great present!! best of luck hope this get better for you