she refused to stand up for me as she didn't want to get involved. From then on I was seen as the bad guy until I left the company.
Thats exactly what I mean about the choices we are given,ie;forget it or seeth inside or deal with it..I suppose it depends on the situation. For instance, someone in work has been really bugging me lately and was incredibly rude to me a couple of weeks ago. She's acting as if nothing has happened while I'm maintaining a chilly but distant relationship. In general, that's how I tend to react if someone has annoyed or upset me. Not because I think its the best way, but its just my automatic reaction.
I generally try to say it if I have a problem with someone. I try to be calm and factual and open to their feedback. (I get most of my opinionated guff out of my system by posting on the internet)
It probably is, so what happens when you tolerate so much and then reach that point?That's a good question but isn't it about the personal breaking point before someone loses patience?
Thats really interesting..One of my biggest bug bears is those who dont support because they dont want to get involved,its such a cop out.And I often wonder how they would feel if others did the same to them.
I would resent the person who didnt support me,more than the original person who had offended me.
There is something very annoying when those who have agreed with you,suddenly become quiet when the subject comes up!
I get most of my opinionated guff out of my system by posting on the internet)
Really, we never would have known
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