My ex-wife and I have been divorced since 2005. We have three children. One of the children moved in with me eight months ago, and I am now considering this to be a permanent move.
My ex still receives state child support for him (on top of a hefty maintenance payment).
I would like to get that benefit transferred to me. Could anyone advise who to contact. Will it need her approval? I imagine she won't be too pleased.
PS: Our agreement specifically states that the three children shall live with her. Now that one is living with me full-time I am going to seek one third of my maintenance back. Will I have to seek a lenghty and expensive maintenance adjustment order, or can I simply deduct the maintenance? I imagine she won't be too pleased with this either.